For those of us who follow actors and their lives, professionally or simply as fans, this has been a pretty tragic period. In the past 14 months, we’ve lost three top-tier performers startlingly before their time -- first with the passing of
None was especially old, and each was very prolific. It’s telling that all three of these men have new movies coming out this fall, which, among other things, will make this one of the more melancholy movie seasons in recent memory, as big entertainments like “The Hunger Games: Mockingjay” and “Night at the Museum: Secret of the Tomb” now become unwitting reminders of death and loss.
It would be incautious to make generalizations about this trio, no matter their shared profession. People struggle, and prominent people struggle just as much as — sometimes even more than — the rest of us. Gandolfini, Hoffman and Williams each had highly individual struggles, all well documented in the aftermath of their deaths.
Still, it’s hard not to be struck by some through-lines in their stories. All three made their living projecting big personalities (it doesn’t get much bigger than
Reading this moving piece about Williams by the comedian Jamie Kilstein, I was struck by that exact quality in the late actor. “There was something so warm and genuine and kind about him…he was very quiet, soft-spoken in a concerned whisper, very wise and very parental,” Kilstein writes. (One also gets the feeling watching this video of Williams with a gorilla who had learned sign language, a rare screen moment when Williams could be seen more for who he was than the personalities he chose to mimic.)
Gandolfini had a similarly gentle quality; as my former colleague Nicole Sperling touchingly recounted shortly after his death, the actor “appear[ed] a lot more vulnerable than his heft would convey” and “much sweeter and kinder than his infamous mob-boss character.”