My Turn: Personal stories by Health section readers
My Turn is a forum in which readers can recount a personal health or fitness experience.
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A writer’s young niece and longtime friend both face their diseases bravely, inspiring others and bringing people together.
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Karyn Foley avoids her own gaze, unhappy with her self-image due to body dysmorphic disorder. She has spent years masking her symptoms.
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A patient’s dire diagnosis sits in her file for a year, prompting her to vow to be more proactive.
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A patient uses lyrics and melodies to ease the boredom of a long hospital stay.
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A teenage boy plunges to his death. What do we tell our kids? And how do we carry on ourselves?
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When the CF gene was identified in 1989, a photo of its discoverer gained a spot on the fridge. Now there’s new promise for a mother to grasp.
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They hover between the hearing and deaf world but fear feeling like outsiders.
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Alzheimer’s disease brought us together.
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By all accounts, Americans are becoming heavier.
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I was baptized at Our Lady of Hypochondria Church.
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Making a child sit on Santa’s lap can lead to years of trauma. It’s a picture not worth taking.
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When panic ensues after news of rising PSA levels, one man decides to get a grip, get better informed about prostate cancer and screening, and live life sensibly.
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Like the young man in ‘50/50,’ a high school student faces a cancer diagnosis.
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My doctor recently suggested that a diminishing number of my white blood cells might signal a serious condition.
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Martina McBride, thank you for singing a song for breast cancer husbands.
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While in the waiting room before treatment, the silence is broken with music, even a dance step or two. It’s all good medicine for people thrown together by fate and bonded by hope.
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She once loved politics, intellectual debates and poetry. Now her vocabulary and body has withered.
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Despite the ‘torture’ involved, activity leads to a happier lifestyle.
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An oncology nurse recalls how her father’s final days were as good as they could be.
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She used to hate working out. But a class at a local community college changed her thinking — and that was 28 years ago.
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An eye patch her husband wore after surgery inspires pirate talk from friends and strangers.
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June 26 marked the seventh month since my diagnosis of Stage 3B non-small cell lung cancer.
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Rumi said it best: “Grief can be the garden of compassion.”
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She finally came to appreciate the role mountain biking playing in his life. Now that he is giving it up because of injury, it’s a sad time.
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Environment or genetics? It’s probably a combination.
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The gadget proves useful for a woman’s daughter in managing concerns.
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Dance Central for Xbox 360 proves quite the workout for a mom pushing 60 who’s still a 16-year-old dancer at heart.
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In case you were wondering, being the parent of a 2-year-old child who can’t walk, needs oxygen and has a feeding tube protruding from her belly is a strange experience.
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A diet of vegetables and whole grains plus a dog-walking regimen help a woman reach her goal.
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I am now almost finished with my journey of medical treatment for breast cancer.
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It started when her glasses became a chew toy. Then the optometrist discovered her dangerous level of blood pressure. Now she’s living a more hopeful life.
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He remembers waking up as she had a heart attack. His use of chest compression rather than traditional CPR is credited with helping her survive.
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A doctor diagnosed with cancer discovers the power a hug can have on an ailing patient.
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When the 94-year-old widow fell in her home, the author reluctantly broke a promise.
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After a lifetime of assuming Mom will always be there, her daughter waivers between despair and love.
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In my junior high home ec class, I liked the emphasis on precision we were taught: Use a butter knife to level off the dry ingredients in a measuring cup, and never pour salt into a measuring spoon over a bowl of already waiting ingredients.
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Don’t give advice, but be there to listen.
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After losing weight and keeping it off on the Atkins diet, it seems odd that no one wants to find out why this higher-calorie option appears to be more effective.
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Medical science has determined that one cannot separate mental and emotional health from physical well-being.
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I completed the Pasadena Marathon six months ago.
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When I stood on the starting line of the Los Angeles Marathon this spring, my main objective was to beat my husband.
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I have always loved helping people achieve their fitness goals, whatever they may be.
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Or, how I used the Bard to shed the lard.
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A diagnosis of idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis, a scarring of the lungs, carries with it a sobering reality. But also new challenges.
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When I open the freezer, out spill industrial-sized bags of spinach, blueberries and chopped bananas from Costco.
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A treadmill stress test during Healthy Heart Week was his wake-up call. He took up running, and now does everything from 5Ks to marathons.
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I always aimed to keep the doctor away, following the American Heart Assn.’
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It’s when the light is just right.
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An episode of ‘The Closer’ sparks a personal turnaround.
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Focus on what you should do, not what you shouldn’t do.
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“I haven’t done this since the eighth grade, so be gentle with me.”
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I was five years into trying to conceive when I received the diagnosis that stopped my quest: premature ovarian failure.
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Retired grandma, 66, finds weightlifting battles flab and old age.
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CPR kept her husband alive after suffering sudden cardiac arrest, but he hasn’t been the same since.
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An unemployed Nevada resident is forced to seek treatment at a crowded state facility. But a sensitive and understanding nurse named Jeff makes the visits worthwhile.
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“Do you have a boyfriend?” he asked me. He was about 84 years old and interested in a date.
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A GPS watch, gait analysis and music were among the tools that helped his progress.
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Maybe it is the fault of genetics. But she tries modifying her diet before resorting to prescription medicine.
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It took the death of her spouse before a woman began taking sun protection seriously, but now she hopes to get others motivated less painfully.
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Whether it was a boyfriend, health goals, personal time or beautiful views, one senior has tried to find a reason and a plan to get or stay in shape.
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Healthcare professionals and diabetics should work together to help get blood sugars within the target range.
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After a series of tests and misdiagnoses, he discovers his weakness and nausea were caused by allergic reactions to milk, wheat and other foods.
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I’d always had a vague feeling that my mother needed to be aware of skin cancer.
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They might not want to face their own mortality.
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A cross-country outing with my daughter ends in a burst bubble.
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Last night at dinner, my 6-foot-tall husband looked down at my plate and said, “You eat more than I do.”
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She has COPD, so a portable oxygen supply is a necessity. If only people would see her before they saw her treatment.
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A little, light torture, anyone? “Lift! Lift the thighs! Lift the torso! Up with the arms!
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Speak slowly and clearly, and look at those who are afflicted so they also can read nonverbal communication.
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It’s the little things that add up to a deep well of support.
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On a trip to the art museum, my son, my husband and I stopped in the cafeteria for lunch.
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For a compulsive overeater, a lifelong commitment to good health began with the realization that sugar is the enemy. Staying away keeps the binges at bay.
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Whenever I heard the phrase “broken ankle,” I assumed the subsequent events: cast, crutches, cast off, bit of limp, back to normal.
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Our king-size bed used to be such a symbol of fun for me, and not just for the reason you might think.
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A former advertising executive finds that being able to do whatever she wants beats being a stress junkie.
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Every morning I get out of bed slowly and shuffle off to the bathroom to take my pile of pills, including a pain medication that has been vilified to the extent that I shudder to speak its name (to borrow a little from Harry Potter).
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This isn’t an easy subject for me, but it’s one many will relate to. I have rheumatoid arthritis.
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Revelations come from a new relationship as cancer patient and caregiver.
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Stress is yours for the slaying. Just get the upper hand on what’s in your head.
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Public misunderstandings, and the occasional laugh
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Be grateful for procedure’s benefits, book an early appointment and stock up on food for afterward.
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Younger adults stricken by disease share emotions, details of treatment with refreshing candor.
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Beauty can also mean helping the planet.
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Her friend’s mom died of a heart attack at 49. Her friend is worried about history repeating itself. But the way the mom lived is very different from the daughter.
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She opted out of those crowded fitness classes and found inspiration in the famous folks who lead her in DVD workouts.
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Pedaling to work is such a joyful thing -- if only all those recent new cyclists (with an aversion to high gas prices) would go back to their cars.
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There are 8 million Americans allergic to cats. My fiancee is one.
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When your loved one is hospitalized, you quickly learn to recognize who’s there to help and who’s not.
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But her commitment to therapy and willingness to try new medications to stave off panic attacks gives her ever-increasing control.
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A personalized design reflects his vocation and defines his illness.
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Morgan Jaffe lost her mother to breast cancer 11 years ago, but the memories never waned. This year, she’ll participate in her fourth Avon Walk.
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After 13 years of the illness, she maintains a positive outlook while adapting to a body that no longer cooperates.
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Workouts become a habit when you look forward to the conversations.
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At 80, she was told she no longer needed periodic colonoscopies. Why?
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Once, she taught aerobics classes. Now, after months of losing muscle mass to Budd-Chiari Syndrome, her first workout in years is a lesson in self-awareness and strength.
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A teacher’s students may scoff at him for leaving his car at home, but he wears his yellow safety vest with pride.
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A man whose physician father also has the same diagnoses finds solace and advice reading the book.
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At a routine exam, her gynecologist’s last-minute query results in early treatment via laparoscopic hysterectomy. Would every doctor have the time to inquire?
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Numbers don’t lie, especially when it comes to weight. But sometimes they don’t tell the full story.
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A hospital stay in England illustrates the gaps in the American healthcare system.
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Some people can’t stand the word “irregardless.”
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Rationalizing away symptoms might calm jangled nerves, but it can also prove dangerous.
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A man’s delight in boating provides a daughter with vibrant memories of a father, before Alzheimer’s, in his prime.
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With friends and family in the land of Omaha steaks, it’s hard to explain that you’re no longer a carnivore.
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The time it takes to sustain health in twilight years takes away from living.
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JUDGING from recent studies of the college recruiting process, there are more than a few sports stage parents out there.
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Inside a ‘little blue book’ is her record of trial and triumph.
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A teenage boy’s brash comment misses its mark. Why try to turn back the clock when you are forging ahead?
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She wanted a body 10 pounds lighter. She got a renewed mind and a surprising amount of reading done.
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Want to see the far-reaching effects of stimulants? Check out a college campus.
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IT’S become our annual tradition.
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Medical advances settle a baby boomer’s fears and illuminate one of life’s everyday miracles.
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A counselor knows the despair that addicts feel. He also knows recovery is possible.
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It took misdiagnosis, a nudge for her doctor and a search for the right face mask, but now she can rest.
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A change-of-life daughter who’s heard this all of her life offers a different perspective on late motherhood.
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To her, ‘survivor’ is just too passive.
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For a mother and her epileptic daughter, a Chinese herbal tea is sweet balm.
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My usual walking routine is to trek briskly for at least an hour a day, up and down the neighborhood hills.
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A mother considers the doors that her son’s illness has forced her to lock tight.
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When a runner has to do without her iPod, she gets a chance to hear something else: her inner voice.
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There I was, a relatively healthy old guy in a stall shower, preparing to celebrate a 34th wedding anniversary with my ever-loving spouse, Elsie.
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An experienced patient has time-saving tips for docs.
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Many of us have been through illnesses that require operations, risky procedures or recurring downtime that can change our lives, even if we fully recover.
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What looks like aspirin could turn out to be trouble for the wrong patient.
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Her son’s cancerous leg tests a mother’s ability to separate emotion from medical reality.
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She was headed for impairment, but a pediatrician spotted the red flags.
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I feel a fluttering inside me. Well, sometimes it’s more like an elbow to the gut.
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Among all the conflicting nutritional news out there, one thing’s clear: Dark chocolate has benefits.
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We were standing in the perpetually long line at Versailles waiting to purchase our tickets, after which we would stand in another long line to get into the famous palace, when I turned to my 17-year-old grandson and asked if he noticed anything odd about the throng of people around us.
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The Chinese foot massage was pure torture -- yet afterward, she was feeling no pain. Ahh, $12 therapy.
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In my 45th year, I learned about life -- through my 12-year-old daughter’s pain.
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She got a pedometer to keep track of daily walking. Now she can’t go anywhere without it.
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Pharmaceutical companies want us to play doctor. Sickness sells, but I’m not buying.
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Years ago HIV/AIDS was the “it” health news item.
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She’s found an upside to aging: the Senior Olympics.
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Many people, while conceding that recreational walking is a convenient, low-tech and effective exercise, complain that it is much too boring to be worthy of their efforts.
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Her father, lost in the fog of Alzheimer’s, won’t remember the promise she can’t keep.
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The time has come for someone to conduct the definitive research study on baby bouncing.
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It was March 1997 and I was leaving the USC psychiatric ward.
