Here is a poem FrancEyE wrote in 2004 after the abrupt death of her 46-year-old daughter, Skye.

COUNTING

When I was 35, my husband said

"Well, Fran, you're half-way there."

What could he have meant? But though

we didn't subscribe to the bible

what he meant was

3 score and 10 are the years we expect.

He lived 6 extra and I've lived 12 so far

so we owe this daughter

dead at 46

(or I owe her

since he can no longer pay)

6.

I owe her 6.

I may die still in debt. She wants me

to go on. I'll try,

but living this way, living with her gone,

is not quite living. I can grieve, though,