Column: When it comes to Gaza, the U.S. has decided whose suffering counts more

A Red Cross van carries released hostages
Hostages being released by the militant group Hamas were driven toward the Rafah border crossing in the Gaza Strip to enter Egypt in November.
(Said Khatib / AFP/Getty Images)

President Biden was right to issue a statement this week marking the 100th day in captivity for many of the hostages kidnapped in Israel by Hamas militants on Oct. 7. But what he left unsaid shows a craven and chilling political calculus.

The president recognized the pain and suffering of the captives and their families. Of more than 200 initially taken, Israel says about 100 remain hostages. That day’s strikes by Hamas left at least 1,200 dead.

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LZ Granderson

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The attack also started a war, which the statement conspicuously does not mention.

Israel’s response to Oct. 7 has killed more than 24,000 people in the Gaza Strip, mostly women and children, according to Palestinian authorities. No mention in the statement.

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Somehow the White House arrived at the political calculus that it was best for Biden to ignore all the tragedies in which Israel is implicated. This feels uncharacteristically cold from a president known for his warmth.

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It would have been possible for the White House to issue a different kind of statement marking the 100th day since the Oct. 7 attack. Imagine a statement that shows empathy not only for kidnapped civilians but also for those killed, maimed, made homeless. The people still being held by Hamas deserve every effort to secure their release. They should always be in our thoughts. So should the hundreds of thousands of others in Gaza who are suffering because of Israel’s bombing campaign and blockade.

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The omissions from the White House statement were deliberate. Biden chose to not acknowledge the tens of thousands of Palestinians who have died — many in places they were told would be safe, such as hospitals and designated shelters. As much as Israel’s war depends on American weapons, it also depends on American silence. We Americans should not abdicate our role in the suffering caused by this war.

And yet Biden’s remarks didn’t even acknowledge the war.

“I will never forget the grief and the suffering I have heard in my meetings with the families of the American hostages,” the statement read. “No one should have to endure even one day of what they have gone through, much less 100. On this terrible day, I again reaffirm my pledge to all the hostages and their families — we are with you. We will never stop working to bring Americans home.”


I am in full support of those efforts.

However the United States can have multiple priorities. The administration can strive for the release of hostages while also supporting Israel’s right to defend itself while also recognizing that civilians in Gaza are suffering through no fault of their own. This war’s innocent casualties are not just Hamas’ hostages or those slain in Israel on Oct. 7, and we should beware of any comments that pretend otherwise.

Biden’s statement on the 100th day matters because rhetoric becomes reality. The comments of lawmakers or presidents — or even candidates for those offices — will inform future foreign policy decisions, such as which nations to give weapons to. And those decisions have repercussions, such as tens of thousands of civilian deaths.

The White House was not wrong to focus the bulk of its statement on those being held hostage and their families. Their lives these last 100 days are almost unimaginable.

But so is the growing desperation in Gaza, and that is a concern of the Biden administration as well. We cannot accept a landscape in which it’s politically risky to acknowledge that innocents are suffering.