Be Sure You Can Handle This Surgery Emotionally

Let’s say that from a physical standpoint, you are an ideal candidate for liposuction. But are you mentally and emotionally ready for cosmetic surgery?

This short quiz is designed to help you uncover any unrealistic expectations, hopes or fears you may have about liposuction--feelings that are best resolved before, not after, you sign on the dotted line.

- Do you have any ambivalence about undergoing surgery for “vanity”? For instance, do you still hear your mother saying, “You’re so vain . . . and all this money you’re spending . . . it’s a sin”?

If you answered yes, consider that many people grew up at a time when having cosmetic surgery was a sign of weakness or shallow character. If you’re struggling with a side of yourself that agrees with that view, lay it to rest so that you can be 100% behind what you’re doing.

- Have you dealt with those people close to you who may disapprove of your surgery plans--your spouse, boyfriend, even sons or daughters?

If you answered no, settle things with them before undergoing surgery. The last thing you need to hear during your recovery are undermining, guilt-provoking comments. During your postoperative time, you’ll need tender loving care--not criticism.

- Are you secretly using surgery to avoid diet, exercise and a healthier way of life because you feel dragged down and are struggling with inertia?

If you answered yes, you may be suffering from an underlying depression that makes you feel helpless about life, job or love situation. Examine this more closely before you consider surgery.

- Are you expecting liposuction to revitalize your sparse or nonexistent love life? Do you expect men to flock to your beach towel when they see your resculpted body?

If you answered yes, be forewarned that liposuction will neither correct personality flaws nor dispel insecurities in relating to men. On the other hand, if you’re hoping to look better in your bathing suit or shorts, yours is the correct reason for seeking liposuction.

- Are you using liposuction to avoid other peoples’ criticism or derogatory comments about your body?

If you answered yes, remember that surgery will not make you immune to criticism. Even after your shape is improved, people can still hurt you. Rather than trying to perfect yourself, learn to deal with criticism.

- Is this a chaotic time in your life? Do you feel an overall sense of anxiety about nearly everything? Are you focusing on an area of your body in a desperate attempt to improve something?

If you answered yes, this is probably not a good time to undergo surgery.