TRAINING YOUR MATE

I have come to the decision that most men do not feel any remote desire to give a material gift of any kind--unless they have not yet begun to feel that you are “theirs.” Once a man feels that “ownership,” you may get something for a special reason, but, believe me, you’ll pay in one way or another. I realize this letter sounds cynical, but it is based on 45 years of being a “loving fool.”

PATTI MCCANN

La Mesa