SYMPATHY PAINS? Willie Nelson, who has had...

SYMPATHY PAINS? Willie Nelson, who has had his share of financial scrapes lately, what with the IRS seizing everything but his cowboy boots, headlines a sold-out benefit today for families of El Toro Marines who served in the Gulf War. . . . “He said he would do it for free if it wasn’t for his IRS problem,” said Alan Sherman of the Rotary Club of Coto de Caza/Trabuco Canyon, which is putting on the gig. Nelson’s making $30,000 and Rotarians expect to raise $70,000 for things like playground gear for the base day-care center.