Do’s and Don’ts for Telling Children About Execution

Psychologists offer the following advice to adults who find themselves explaining to children the scheduled execution of Robert Alton Harris:

* Answer questions honestly.

* Don’t overload children with more information than they ask for. Don’t say they are not old enough to understand.

* Listen to their reactions to the planned execution. Don’t dismiss their views.

* Acknowledge and discuss their fears.

* Listen to how they ask about the execution; this will give some indication of how they feel about it.

* Make sure they feel free to talk about this.

* Ask for help--from another adult or a school counselor--if you feel you cannot handle a discussion and your child wants to talk about this.

* Anticipate that this event might frighten youngsters. Young children, those younger than 5, do not need to learn about the execution. But, if they ask questions, answer as simply as possible. Be reassuring.

* Initiate a discussion with teen-agers if possible. Try to objectively explain the controversy and issues. Present your view. Ask their opinion and how they arrived at their conclusion.

* Keep in mind that children who lack stability at home or who have experienced trauma, such as violence, may be more affected. Children with a parent or relative in prison may also be upset.