Nomads of the Great American Heartland
Scenes from a family car trip:
Day 1: The open road. A full tank of gas. Kids in the back seat. Maps on Momâs lap. I zero out the odometer. I zero out the kids. Out of the garage we roar, as if leaving the Bat Cave. The pace car for summer vacation.
âDad, is it hard to drive?â the little girl asks.
âNot really,â I say.
âBecause you make it look so easy,â she says.
âHere, have a dollar,â I say.
By noon, we are in the land where you pump first, then pay, a small token of trust that encourages us to continue. Gas is 20 cents cheaper. You can see the sky.
In the back seat, it smells like a garden party. Iâm pretty sure there are cut flowers.
Day 2: The open road. A full tank of gas. Kids in the back seat. Maps missing.
âI think youâre sitting on them,â my wife says.
âTheyâll be safe there,â I say.
In Denver, my wife does that little thing with her hands that she does when she thinks Iâm not slowing down soon enough for traffic stopped ahead. Like someone shaking out a match. Like someone watching a no-hitter.
âThanks for the help,â I say.
âNo sweat,â she says.
âI spilled Orange Crush in my shoe,â the boy says.
âI want Orange Crush in my shoe,â the little girl says.
By 4 p.m., the back seat smells like a frat party. Iâm pretty sure there is beer.
Day 3: The open road. A full tank of gas. Tic-Tacs rattling in all the ashtrays. Underwear flapping from a window.
âMom, whatâs a common-law marriage?â the boy asks.
His mother explains common-law marriages.
âSee, weâre married,â the boy tells his little sister, which makes the little girl break into tears. I donât know if sheâs happy or sad. As with most brides, itâs hard to tell.
âGet a lawyer,â her older sister suggests.
âOK,â says the little girl.
To pass the time, the kids make signs with Magic Markers and hold them up to passing truckers.
âJust married,â one sign says.
âHonk if youâre bored,â another says.
âHave you seen my duck?â asks another.
By 4 p.m., the back seat smells like boiled socks. And a type of cheese I cannot at first identify.
âCar-trip cheese,â I finally say to my wife.
âHuh?â she says.
âNever mind,â I say.
Day 4: The open road. A full tank of gas. After breakfast, my wife calls me âDagwood,â then threatens to leave me for the mini-mart attendant at the Shell.
âHe seemed so nice,â my wife says as we pull away.
âDad, if she goes, weâre staying with you,â the boy says.
âNo, weâre not,â says the little girl.
âThatâs your choice,â I tell them.
For lunch, we stop in the little Iowa town where Buffalo Bill was born.
âWanna see the Buffalo Bill museum?â I ask.
âYes!â the little girl screams.
âDad, donât let this get any worse,â my older daughter says.
âThat clerk, he seemed so nice,â my wife says.
âMy leg is bleeding,â says the boy.
By 4 p.m., the back seat smells like a zoo. I think thereâs a monkey loose.
And in the nick of time, we arrive in Chicago, proudly wearing the dirt of eight dusty states.
The kids tumble from the car, then grunt when their grandmother hugs them hard. For several minutes, they struggle to get their breath back.
âShe hugs good,â says the little girl, staggering toward the house.
The Midwest is bigger than we remember it. Friendly. The sort of place where presidents are born.
For eight days, the children run rampant across northern Illinois, swimming and fishing and throwing rocks in rivers. They chase their cousins. They eat watermelon with their noses and chins.
When they run out of things to do, they sit on the back porch and count their mosquito bites, as if comparing souvenirs.
âIâve got 12,â one says.
âIâve got 15,â says another.
âThatâs a nipple,â one explains.
âNo itâs not.â
âLetâs not talk about nipples,â I say.
On the ninth day, we load up the car. The kids climb back aboard, three car-trip cosmonauts, ready for another mission.
âMy face is bleeding,â says the boy.
âThatâs Grandmaâs lipstick,â his older sister explains.
âShe kisses good,â the little girl says.
The car sputters as we pull out of the driveway, as if we left a sparkplug in the garage.
âBye, Grandma!â they yell, waving out the back window.
Somehow, the sputtering minivan keeps going, pointed back across the prairie.
âI canât believe it,â my wife says.
âWhat?â I say.
âItâs over,â she says sadly.
âNot yet,â I say.
The open road. A full tank of gas. Two thousand miles till home.
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Chris Erskineâs column is published on Wednesdays. His e-mail address is chris.erskine@latimes.com.
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