Quality of life

Re “Seeking Meaning as They Live Out Their Lives” (by David Weddle, Dec. 28): As the co-founder of an organization that helps thousands of families each year find the “right” retirement or assisted living place for their aging loved ones when their home may no longer be the best option, I feel compelled to mention that with a positive outlook, caring support and making the right residential living choice, a senior can have a successful transition and continue to lead a meaningful life.

They can have as fulfilling a lifestyle as they choose to have, keeping in mind limitations due to their individual care needs. Seniors who flourish embrace the opportunities and create possibilities, explore new interests, or use their skills to benefit others. Seniors who remain productive continue to have purpose, even though their residence has changed. Those who sit around waiting for that next meal likely had a sedate attitude and were also unfulfilled in their earlier years.

Family time is highest on the list for the seniors, and when it is in short supply, it can negatively color the senior’s attitude. If families are distant or nonexistent, the staff at the facility deserves to be applauded for filling the emotional gap. Being included in the lives of their family will oftentimes provide the purpose in the life of the senior.

Lori Solomon

Encino

Lori Solomon is president of Accent on Seniors, a state licensed referral placement service.

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I would suggest that the residents of Summerhill Villa rediscover the delights of their public library as patrons or volunteers. The library will welcome them with open arms; they will find an intelligent, willing staff and a whole world of interest and information waiting for them. The library doesn’t care how old you are or where you have been. It is already paid for and it is yours whenever you want it.

Michael McGrorty

Altadena