It took Melania Trump’s first big solo international trip for her to show a different side of herself — a playful, less serious one.
And while she generously dished out warm smiles and happy waves, the first lady also used her four-nation tour of Africa to draw some firmer boundaries between her own views and those of her husband, the president.
“I don’t always agree with what he says and I tell him that,” the first lady told reporters Saturday against the backdrop of the Great Sphinx before she headed back to Washington. “But I have my own voice and my own opinions and it’s very important for me that I express what I feel.”
The first lady hopscotched across Africa without President Trump, commanding a spotlight that was hers alone. In doing her own thing, the very private first lady essentially peeled back the curtain ever so slightly as she wiped away the serious face she wears around Washington.
She demonstrated her independence from her husband in ways large and small — like talking up U.S. foreign aid that he’s tried to slash and ignoring the Fox-only edict that the president imposes on TV screens when he’s aboard Air Force One.
The first lady also did a few things she’s never done before, like wave to journalists as she boarded a U.S. government aircraft for the grueling five-day tour across multiple time zones. With big smiles on her face — sometimes paired with the unfamiliar sound of her laughter — she cuddled babies and bottle-fed young elephants.
The trip, which had been in the works for months, provided a welcome escape from the ugly political battle taking place in the U.S. capital over Brett Kavanaugh, the president’s Supreme Court nominee who was confirmed on Saturday.
But even half a world away, reporters asked her opinion about the judge, and she said he was “highly qualified " to join the court. As for Kavanaugh’s accusers, Trump declined to venture an opinion but said “we need to help all victims, no matter what kind of abuse” they experienced.
The struggle over Kavanaugh resurfaced the roiling debate over the treatment of women who allege sexual misconduct. The first lady has had to grapple with that issue herself, given the multiple women who have accused her husband of sexually inappropriate behavior, claims he says are false.
Always under a microscope, the fashion-conscious first lady caught some criticism for the white pith helmet she wore with her safari ensemble in Kenya. Social media lit up with complaints about her choice of a hat viewed by some as a symbol of Kenya’s colonial past and its one-time domination by the British.
The former model had a terse rejoinder when asked about that: “I wish people would focus on what I do, not what I wear.”
What, then, was her intended message for Africa? “That we care and we want to show the world we care.”
It was a message that was especially welcome given President Trump ‘s own derogatory comments about the continent that he has yet to visit.
Joshua Meservey, a senior Africa policy analyst at the conservative Heritage Institute, said there were modest expectations for the first lady’s trip, and she largely met them.
“As a public diplomacy tour, it seemed successful,” he said.
The first lady opened the trip in Ghana, where she went to an infant clinic and learned how babies are weighed — in slings that are hooked to a scale. It was at Greater Accra Regional Hospital that she plucked a chubby baby boy from the arms of the woman holding him. She cooed with the baby, who stared back at her with wonder. Photos of the unexpected moment were popular on social media.
She also learned about Africa’s slave past by touring Cape Coast Castle, a former slave-holding facility on the Ghanaian coast.
The first lady spent time inside the cramped dungeon that was used to house male slaves. She also walked through the “Door of No Return,” the portal through which the slaves were shipped to the New World, and gazed out at the Atlantic Ocean as if trying to imagine the harrowing journey.
In Malawi, she went to Chipala Primary School in Lilongwe, where students sang their welcome to her.
She toured indoor and outdoor classrooms, observed lessons and watched some students play soccer with balls she donated. The first lady also witnessed the handover of a batch of textbooks donated by a U.S. international developmental agency.
Trump seemed most happy in Kenya, where she visited Nairobi National Park to highlight elephant preservation and fed baby elephants milk through a super-sized baby bottle, patting one elephant’s head and stroking another’s ear.
She closed her tour in Egypt by touring the pyramids and the Great Sphinx to highlight U.S.-backed preservation efforts there. The U.S. Agency for International Development has been working with the Egyptian government on lowering groundwater levels to prevent additional damage to the landmarks.
Each stop was meant to call attention to the work of USAID, her partner on the trip. But the president twice has proposed slashing the agency’s money.
The first lady’s focus on elephant preservation also clashed with the administration’s decision to allow Americans to resume importation of body parts of African elephants hunted for sport.