Advertisement

Everyone Old Is New Again When Students Visit Convalescent Home : Volunteers: Sixty youths from Bert Lynn Middle School get warm reception from senior citizens, many of whom do not receive visitors regularly.

Share
SPECIAL TO THE TIMES

Eighth-grader Marcelo Garcia took Evelyn Olinger by the hand Thursday and escorted the frail, tiny woman into the Torrance Care Center’s recreation room.

There, 60 of Marcelo’s classmates from Bert Lynn Middle School mingled and laughed with those many years their senior. It was the school’s fourth and last weekly visit to the convalescent home--and clearly many were enjoying it.

Side by side, the young and old played card games and table games. Christmas cards and gifts were exchanged. A student played an upright piano. And Olinger soaked it all in.

Advertisement

“Oh, yes, I love this,” said Olinger, whose response to those who ask her age is a simple “too old.”

“The children liven this place up. It’s too dead otherwise. It’s nice to have somebody to walk with and talk to. I look forward to their coming around. They are a good bunch of boys and girls.”

The one-hour visits--they will be replaced with monthly visits--are the brainchild of Billie Jones, an eighth-grade English teacher at the school. Earlier this year, she was looking for something her students could write about when she struck on the idea of bringing them to the 99-bed facility, about a mile walk from the school.

“I thought this was a way the children could learn compassion while at the same time learning communication skills,” Jones said. “They have been writing poems for the patients, writing letters for them, interviewing them and writing stories. This has broadened their experiences and given them something about which they can write.”

Marcia Hawkins, the home’s activities director, said she accepted Jones’ proposal the minute she heard it. Only half of the home’s patients have regular visitors, and 10% have no visitors at all, she said.

“This has been very good for the residents,” she said. “We have some high school seniors who come around and volunteer, but never any children this young. The patients become very enthused when they know the children are coming.”

Advertisement

Bruce Cameron, the home’s administrator, said the visits remind patients of when their children and grandchildren were young.

“They remember how much fun that was, and that’s important to them,” he said. “But this is also good for the kids. They learn that life isn’t all surf and beach.”

Frances Stone, 73, spent the hour being whizzed through the halls in her wheelchair by four boys, whom she entertained with a slightly risque poem about boys, girls, skirts and the wind.

“These boys are all my friends,” said Stone, who has 10 children and 16 brothers and sisters. “I do like to have them come by, these boys and girls.”

Gloria Klemp, who wouldn’t give her age but said her oldest child is 47, had a group of children gathered around her wheelchair for an animated conversation about nothing in particular.

“These children make me feel better because they don’t look at me and make me feel as old as I am,” she said.

Advertisement

Kevin Shihadeh, 13, who was talking with Klemp, said he had only seen the inside of a convalescent home on television and probably never would have visited one except for Jones’ class. Now he’s glad he came.

“When you get to know these people, you find out they are real nice,” he said.

Some children are even coming to the home on their own.

Cheryl Feuerstein, 13, in the past few weeks has been spending one night and Saturdays at the home and may start coming on Sundays too.

“I found out it’s important to volunteer for people who need help instead of just hanging around the house or at the mall, because that’s just a waste of time,” she said.

Meanwhile, Marcelo Garcia had left Olinger and was playing a board game with a group of patients and other students.

Colorful plastic pieces molded in shapes such as half-moons and squares were spread on the table. The players were seeing who could put the most in a box through identically shaped holes in a set period of time. When the buzzer went off ending the game, everyone laughed uproariously.

“I like everybody here because they are fun to be with,” Marcelo said. “I think we make them feel like somebody. For a lot of these people, we are the most fun they have.”

Advertisement
Advertisement