Platform : Good Samaritans: ‘Prudence Is My Guiding Light’

REV. FRANK EIKLOR

President, Shalom International, a Christian-led interfaith organization based in Corona that fights anti-Semitism

When it is clear to me that a person is a victim of whatever painful circumstances he or she is in, then I’m committed to help. When I’m not sure that the “victim” might be planning to make me his or her victim, then I fire up a quick prayer and proceed with caution--be it physically lending a hand or calling the police. Believe me, I know what it’s like to be threatened and fearful for your life. I get plenty of hate mail and threats to my life. To not help, to cop out and not stop whatever injustice is taking place, that to me, a Christian, is a denial of Christ and what he’s all about. Anybody, Christian or not, who has a conscience must help.

CHARLES WHEELER

Directing attorney, National Immigration Law Center, Los Angeles

I think instinctively I would help someone. But how I would help would depend on the situation. I think in any large urban area like Los Angeles, it would be foolish to blindly enter a situation that could be dangerous. Unfortunately, because of what’s happening in our cities, prudence is my guiding light, and I would hope that it also guides all those Good Samaritans. It’s not only guns and violence, but even medical personnel are becoming more prudent. For example, they are much more reluctant to stop at an accident scene because of the fear of contaminated blood and the fear of AIDS. It’s a much more cautious world.

FRANCISCO MARMOLEJO

Professor of History and Humanities, Irvine Valley College

In light of the escalation, pervasiveness, random and senseless nature of violence in our society, it appears that it may be risky and imprudent to play the role of the Good Samaritan. However, this conclusion may be the result of too narrow a focus on the problems and not the solutions.

The violent nature of modern urban life in the United States is symptomatic of the deep sense of economic grievance felt by many Americans who see opportunity as a mirage. Systematic responses from the political machinery often involve scapegoating and deflection instead of planning for a more equitable distribution of resources, or for the legitimate political and social empowerment of all.

But what about the individual response? If we allow the violent conditions to harden our spirits and to define our personal reality, we become isolated units, insensitive to anything but our own personal survival, comfort and success. We forget our responsibility as humans to foster efficient social interaction through compassionate understanding. So, while it may be imprudent to play the Good Samaritan, it may also be more necessary than ever.

BETH LEWIS

Lakewood resident

I would never help anybody. In fact, when I’ve had car problems, I’m scared when somebody pulls over to help. You just don’t know who it might be. I have a friend who was attacked by some guy who stopped to help her. Thank God, she was able to get away, but there are just too many crazies out there. Even my dad, who would always help people, doesn’t do it anymore. Sorry, but I have to deal with reality. And people can’t be trusted anymore.

JOYCE NORWOOD

Counselor, Rancho Santiago College, Santa Ana

I always believed that helping people in distress was the right thing to do, because you never know when the shoe might be on the other foot, and the victim could be me. I’m not saying to just march into an unknown situation, but be cautious and help whatever way you can.

I rely on my gut feelings. I can pretty much tell what situation I should involve myself in and what situation I should call for help.

MICHAEL STEELER

Construction worker, Torrance

The other day I stopped and helped out a couple of guys who’s car had broken down. After we got their car started, they told me that my help renewed their hope in humanity. It wasn’t any big deal, I just helped them out. But when they said that, I felt really good.

My wife gave me hell when I got home because she said they could have been gang members and they might have killed me or stolen my money. But I told her I can’t live in fear all my life. And I’m not about to change the way I am because of the criminals.