Readers React: ‘Meaning’ is the secret to a fulfilling life -- and death

To the editor: As a bioethicist, I’ve spend considerable time researching and publishing on the subject of “dying a good death.” (“Losing a partner can literally break your heart,” April 5)

The inescapable conclusion is that it is “meaning” that supports a fulfilling life — and death. Meaning in life is not just a theoretical or philosophical construct; it also has bearing on human health and well-being, including providing a sense of purpose, self-worth and values or standards by which to judge our actions, and giving us a sense of control over the events in our life, which includes our inevitable death.

It is, therefore, “meaning” that is at the core of our existence, including a “death with dignity.”

Richard Boudreau, MD, Marina del Rey

The writer is a bioethicist at Loyola Marymount University.

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To the editor: It seems we are a nation of death deniers who avoid any and all discussion of the “end of life” subject.

Personally, it has not served me well when I have been utterly unprepared for the shock and devastation of losing family and friends over the years. This inability to have a conversation about the topic must change.

The Times’ article is a good reminder that this event will happen to everyone on the planet, so let’s pull it out of the shadows and be mindful of the fact that a good death needs our open and thoughtful discussion with family and friends.

Anita Freeman, Long Beach

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