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What Makes Mary Run? : Politics: Old-fashioned values and concern for the downtrodden drive the 6th District challenger. Even political foes praise her hard work and heart.

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TIMES STAFF WRITER

On a recent evening as most people were ending their work day, Los Angeles City Council candidate Mary Lee Gray was jumping behind the wheel of the tank-like car she calls the “yellow bomber” and cruising toward Crenshaw for the second half of her 16-hour campaign day.

At her Crenshaw office, carefully decorated with still-life paintings from her home, Gray conducted a strategy and “energizing” session with key area volunteers on nuts-and-bolts issues.

Back in the “yellow bomber,” a 1979 Plymouth, Gray rushed back to Venice, where she sat ramrod straight for 1 1/2 hours in a supporter’s living room. She patiently and articulately discussed her positions with voters at a “coffee’ in the Oxford Triangle neighborhood.

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By 10:30 p.m., she was free to tell a reporter the story of her life over dinner. Then, it was on to her campaign headquarters in Venice to join her treasurer for a late night session.

What makes Mary Gray run? And why can’t she stop?

A will of iron and the energy of a steamroller seem to be the dominant characteristics of the 50-year-old Gray, a tall woman who seems to always remember a mother’s admonishment to hold her head high and spine straight, giving her an almost regal bearing that commands attention.

Gray is fighting an uphill battle to gain the 6th District City Council seat of incumbent Ruth Galanter. Galanter, also 50, almost won the election outright in the April primary. Gray finished a distant second with about 20% of the vote in a field of six challengers. But Gray, a longtime county government worker on leave from her post, is hoping the disenchantment that kept Galanter under the 50% mark in the primary will snowball into an upset victory for her.

“I can assure you she is not as determined as I am,” said Gray.

When Gray repeats her oft-stated passion to serve the public, it comes out sounding almost like a religious calling. This is not surprising for the daughter of a Church of Christ minister who during the week worked for the Santa Fe railroad and commanded respect and obedience from his family.

When she discusses her childhood in Los Angeles, Gray recalls dinners where the whole family was expected on time, her father was served first and he was always called “sir.”

The chameleon nature of Gray’s political registration may be rooted in her upbringing. Her father was a Democrat, her mother a Republican. Gray has been both, veering away from the Republican Party in the ‘60s when it failed to keep pace with her views on social services and civil rights issues, then coming back more than a decade later, she said, because she is a fiscal conservative.

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Though she pays homage to her family’s values, she also had to go her own way. At 20, Gray said, she pitted her will against her father’s, moving out of the family home against his wishes to claim her independence. She worked nights for the Los Angeles Police Department during her college years at Cal State Long Beach and has been going full steam ever since.

“She is one of the hardest-working people I’ve ever met,” said former Santa Monica City Councilwoman Chris Reed, who has worked for years with Gray and Galanter and considers both of them friends. “Dogged determination is a good way to describe Mary Lee Gray.”

Even her political foes have something nice to say about her. Santa Monica City Councilman Dennis Zane, a liberal Democrat and staunch supporter of Galanter for her leadership on environmental issues, called Gray “a Republican with heart.”

Over the past 18 years, Gray has worked as a top aide to three successive county supervisors. Two of them--both Republicans--praise her work.

Her current boss, Supervisor Deane Dana, said: “She is totally committed to providing and spending the county dollars in the best way to improve the system for the constituents. That’s her total ambition in life, and the constituents love her for it.”

Dana also noted Gray’s boundless energy and convincing ways: “When she believes she’s right, she pushes it no matter how great the obstacles.”

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The first supervisor Gray worked for, James Hayes, now in private law practice, called Gray “an extremely capable deputy acutely aware of the needs of the people.” He added: “She was able to communicate those needs to me.”

Ex-Supervisor Yvonne Brathwaite Burke, the one Democrat Gray worked for, said Gray did her job and was an excellent writer, offering no further comment.

Gray’s responsibilities as a senior deputy have included health issues and social services, and she takes credit for organizing the city’s first homeless shelter and a countywide drug task force. She is especially proud of LIEU-CAP, a shelter for homeless women and children in Venice.

Reed said starting that shelter several years ago when “no one cared about these people” is an example of Gray’s getting “hooked into an issue and not letting go of it. . . . I bet she badgered the heck out of Dana.”

Stephanie Klopfleisch, a deputy director of the county Department of Community Services, has worked with Gray since the early ‘70s, and describes her as demanding, but in a good way.

“She tries to get the most out the bureaucracy to serve people in a fast way,” said Klopfleisch. “If you want not to do something, she is a formidable person to deal with.”

Gray has not confined her social service to work hours. For about five years she has worked with a welfare family--a couple and their four children, whom she met at a yard sale. Gray’s encouragement and support helped the mother learn to read. One of the daughters, meanwhile, has found a job and become self-sufficient.

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Gray also “adopted,” through her church, the family of a man in prison. Gray said she acts as a mentor and counselor to the family, as well as providing holiday dinners and movie tickets. When the mother completed a parenting class at Gray’s urging, “it was the first thing she ever finished in her life,” Gray said.

And then there’s the man Gray calls her adopted son, a 40-year-old formerly homeless person who, thanks in part to Gray’s help, works for the city of Los Angeles. The man provides outreach services to other homeless people.

Gray’s own children, Pamela, a freshman at Cal State Long Beach, and Bessie, a high school senior, seem to be following in Mom’s footsteps, winning awards and assuming leadership roles in school. Gray is twice divorced.

Gray said she is guided by the positive-thinking teachings of Dr. Norman Vincent Peale and others who stress keeping your eye on your goals rather than on stumbling blocks that may deter you. In line with that philosophy, her campaign office chair has a sign on it that says “6th District Councilwoman,” and her calendar is marked for a “victory party” June 4.

Mary Lee GrayBorn: Feb. 8, 1941

Hometown: Los Angeles

Education: B.A. Political Science-Public Administration, Cal State Long Beach

Career highlights: 1981-89, creation of four homeless shelters in Los Angeles, Compton, Venice and Long Beach; 1982, Stateswoman of the Year, California Public Health Assn.; 1989, Women Paving the Way civic award from YWCA, Los Angeles; 1990, Neighborhood Youth Assn. service award; 1990, Humanitarian of the Year from Venice Chamber of Commerce; 1991, induction into Native Daughters of the Golden West.

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