Opinion: ‘Toxic masculinity’ and the difference between reformed ex-cons and sexual harassers

To the editor: I thoroughly enjoyed the article written by Eldra Jackson III regarding his life as a gang member and his remarkable transition to a responsible citizen after his experience with the men’s group called the “Inside Circle” at New Folsom Prison. (“How men at New Folsom Prison reckon with toxic masculinity,” Opinion, Nov. 30)

In his well-written article, Jackson explained his experience with a painful childhood, which he turned into justification for hurting others. I think the program is an excellent tool for hardened criminals who need to work through their need to control and dominate those around them.

The (many) men who have recently been exposed for their harassment of women and use of money and power to achieve sexual amusement don’t really fall into the category of “hardened criminal.” Many of them had happy childhoods and are well educated and quite successful. These are men who, quite simply, used money and power to behave inappropriately while their peers — largely other men with money and power — looked the other way.

The issue is respect. I believe you can’t really respect yourself if you don’t respect the people around you.

Jo-Anne Collins, Fountain Valley

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To the editor: A salute to Jackson for his honest and informative article.

This type of group discussion, in one form or another, should be practiced in our schools with participation by all students. It would reduce bullying and preclude to some extent the pursuit of antisocial lifestyles.

Ken Cantwell, Yorba Linda

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